SAINT VALENTINE'S DAY, a holiday honoring lovers. It is celebrated February 14 by the custom of sending greeting cards or gifts to express affection. The cards, known as valentines, are often designed with hearts to symbolize love.
Focus outward. Keep your attention outside yourself, toward a particular flirting target or toward the general social environment. You can't flirt while you're self-absorbed.
Signal interest. If you already know your target, communicate through your attitude that you are genuinely glad to see him or her. If you aren't acquainted, use a lingering glance or slight smile.
Straighten up. Good posture, with shoulders relaxed, triggers subconscious arousal responses in both you and your target.
Touch. If you are a woman, touch your flirting target on the arm, hand or shoulder. If you are a man, touch your flirting target on the back or shoulders when you help her on with her coat, or when you hold out a chair or open the door.
Use your eyes. Whether in conversation or across the room, look at your target's eyes a little longer than necessary, and keep a small smile on your own face while you do that. But winking is out.
Compliment. To flirtatiously compliment either a man, mention something he does well. To flirtatiously compliment a woman, mention something about her knowledge, understanding, expressiveness, or appearance. Start with one compliment per flirting session.
Use body language. Face your target, keep your arms uncrossed, and lean forward slightly.
Lighten up. Keep your seductiveness subtle. Sexy is not the same as flirtatious, and an overly seductive manner or dress kills flirting.
Learn to dance. At least, move to music in private. All great flirts have music in their being.
Smile. Smile when you don't know what to say, and smile to show you're impressed with your target. It's still the most potent flirting tool.
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